If you want to be yourself, you dont have to get others' confirmation that you want to be yourself, because you are yourself

29 March 2012

bila ustazah berbicara

this is the original answer script from me myself towards my friend's questions. actually she choose people who are single mingle as her interviewee. dah la kena rekod suara. hampess baru i know that my pelat rrrrrr is sooooooo annoying.

1) what is ur opinion about intimate relationship before marriage?

in my opinion, there is no intimate relationship b4 marriage. Islam has taught us to beware on this matter. for me, it is so sweet when u fall in love after married

2) how do u deal with this issue?

if possible, i would restrain myself from involve in the relationship before marriage

3) how do u respond towards those who are in relationship?

i respect them as long as they know the limits of being in relationship. i would not ask them to be separate because it is their right to love and be love

4) what is your respond when lecturer/someone talk about this issue?

i would just give them my absolute opinion. if we are in the same opinion, then it will be fine. otherwise, if we are in different opinion, i will argue about his or her point if necessary

5)do u know the islamic viewpoint on intimate relationship before marriage?

as far as i know, it is not allowed under Islam about such thing.

6) should we curb intimate relationship and how?

society should concern 100% about this issue.especially parents. they should control their children's activities as well as who are their friends

7) what intimate relationship before marriage can lead to?

for me, there is pros and cons. it is about how u control urself. if u able to control it well, then it turns out to be good. otherwise it may harm yourself

p/s: actually the question is from my friend who are in relationship with my friends also. we were from the same school. i just didnt know what to answer because i scared that my answer might hurt her. sorry u.

hebatnya ujian-MU

ya Allah..
dengan kekuasaan Mu..
setelah aku ternampak dia dan kekasihnya..
terus aku post di fb..
 
 for the long time..
aku hope he will be waiting for me tapi hampess ko..
aku geram gak la tapi i will never crying for the man that is not halal to me..

but suddenly,terkejot kot..
baru balik dinner dengan oni je..
suddenly my fon ringing.. i thought it was my mom..
sebab dah janji nak balik tapi tak balik gak..

guess what???
he called me..
i remember his voice..
tapi no. tak keluar sebab dia guna celcom..
aku just hafal no.maxis dia je..

so now aku just wanna be friends..
kalau lu taknak silakan angkat kaki dan main jauh2..
adios agigos..

18 March 2012

oh my bad

assalamualaikum..

today i felt very tired. i didnt start yet reading my notes for the coming midterm. this is me. i always take easy on everything. then if anything bad happen baru nak menyesal. anyway, i believe in Allah. if i am sincere in doing job, HE will bless me. Insya Allah.

i started my day by doing revision with my bff, atiqah. actually its not revision but sort of tutoring. she asked me to teach business finance at mcd. we studied till lunch hour.

then i pick up my little bro and send him back home. i just feel geram with him. i dont know why. then at home, he asked me something. he want to borrow my skuter. i felt uneasy everytime i let him using my skuter. and it is true. something bad happen. skuter rosak.

i cant control myself and marah dia. astaghfirullah. not him only, everyone has been scold by me. thats why i feel so terrible, annoying, disgusting etc. hati rasa tak tenang je sebab dah marah teruk sangat. i love him although he always make my whole family annoyed by his attitude.

anyway shaari,  ko takkan baca blog ni sebab ko tak tahu kewujudannya. tapi orang mintak maap sebab takde intention pun.